{"id":1073,"date":"2019-04-30T16:43:55","date_gmt":"2019-04-30T23:43:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nancymthurston.wordpress.com\/?p=1073"},"modified":"2019-12-18T17:42:01","modified_gmt":"2019-12-18T17:42:01","slug":"blazing-new-trails-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nancymthurston.com\/blog\/2019\/04\/30\/blazing-new-trails-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Blazing New Trails: From Subversion to Spiritual Transformation"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fifteen years ago, my teen-aged daughter Laura introduced me to Sara Evans\u2019 song \u201cI Could Not Ask for More.\u201d<\/a> Years later, this was the song I\u2019d been singing for weeks in anticipation of the Trailblazing Boards of Directors Meeting. (see my previous blog<\/a>). I was thrilled that Laura was excited to fly across the country with me to participate fully in this groundbreaking meeting.<\/p>\n

\tWaiting to board our flight to Atlanta, I received an email response to a question posed within the Wisdom & Money board. I gasped.<\/p>\n

\tThe response brought the months long collaborative process of a joint leadership team from Be Present, Inc. and Wisdom & Money into question. I knew that this email had the potential to destroy the collaborative partnership we\u2019d worked so hard, and beautifully, to build.\"\"<\/p>\n

\tThis was just the sort of boulder in the road that used to spook the wild horse in me, sending me riding in circles of fear convinced that all would be lost.<\/p>\n

\tNot this time. I knew the truth of the partnership we had all walked together. I was well practiced in the transformative power of our core practices of the Be Present Empowerment Model and Christian Wisdom practices. In addition, despite the message I was reading, I also knew how powerfully the email\u2019s author had been an active and enthusiastic participant in all our preparations.<\/p>\n

\t\"\"Cruising at 35,000 feet, my emotions began to settle. I wasn\u2019t yet sure exactly how we would address this issue, but I was clear that moments like these were ripe with potential for transformation: personally, within our Wisdom & Money and Be Present partnership, and rippling out into our culture.<\/p>\n

\tOnly a few days remained before we would all be together. Many were already on their own circuitous trail to Atlanta, so phone calls weren\u2019t possible. We also had a full agenda for our time together.<\/p>\n

\tBut I was clear. I was one of the three board chairs tasked with opening this joint board meeting, a historic moment in our long partnership. Powering through as if nothing had happened doesn\u2019t work for me anymore and is definitely out of alignment with our shared values.<\/p>\n

\tTogether, we needed to find time to meet together and walk through this moment, trusting that transformation was possible. Even at this eleventh hour.<\/p>\n

\tAgility is key when blazing new trails.<\/p>\n

\tThose of us who were in Atlanta early began to image how we could have the needed conversations both with the Wisdom & Money Board (the recipients of the emails) and the Trailblazing Joint Leadership Team (those whose work together had been brought into question). The agenda was examined carefully. Alternatives considered. Topics consolidated. A plan slowly emerged that allowed time for the needed conversations while still holding to the essential parts of our board meeting. Each member was contacted and, when possible given traveling constraints, included in the conversation. All occurred in less than two days.<\/p>\n

\tThe joint leadership team agreed to meet early on the first day of our board meeting. First, we wanted to understand what was said and intended in the email itself.<\/p>\n

\tThe author shared the he\u2019d had his own pondering time at 35,000 feet as he flew toward Atlanta, and he began to share the fruit of his reflections. Without deflecting or minimizing, he spoke clearly about his actions and his understanding of what happened that lead to the email and his awareness of the dangerous \u201csubverting\u201d impact of his words.<\/p>\n

\tWe all listened, honoring his struggle and his process. Then we each shared honestly about the impact his email had on us.<\/p>\n

\tWitnessing the steadiness and power of the author\u2019s process of coming to new sight \u2013 \u00a0both what propelled the writing of the author\u2019s email and his articulation of his own movement to clarity and integrity \u2013 was beautiful beyond words. Together, we fully used one of our joint core practices, the Be Present Empowerment Model, in a way that supported and expanded his own personal leadership development and strengthened our partnership.<\/p>\n

\tThat which could have destroyed instead strengthened our partnership.<\/p>\n

\tThe following evening the Wisdom & Money Board of Directors had a separate meeting to address the issues in the email. Many on the board are new in using the Be Present Empowerment Model and had limited experience in the level of collaboration that ran through the Trailblazing leadership.<\/p>\n

\tMost had not noticed anything awry with the email.<\/p>\n

\tIt would have been very easy for most of the board to have taken the comment in the email about the limited collaboration at face value. We\u2019ve all experienced partnerships with skewed power dynamics, and too often we accept that as inevitable. I knew that it was important for the full Wisdom & Money Board to both to witness the writer of the email\u2019s own emerging clarity about his behavior and to experience the transformative potential of our shared use of the Be Present Empowerment Model.<\/p>\n

\tAgain, he stepped in clearly. His insight into his behavior had deepened.<\/p>\n

\tThat which could have destroyed, and often does in organizations and partnerships, strengthened our shared trailblazing skills. It flowed through our Wisdom & Money Board out into the larger Trailblazing Boards of Directors meeting, thereby rippling out into our culture, so starving for just and equitable ways to be in partnership.<\/p>\n

\tStay tuned for the next episode of Blazing New Trails\u2026 Hold onto your hats!<\/p>\n

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Fifteen years ago, my teen-aged daughter Laura introduced me to Sara Evans\u2019 song \u201cI Could Not Ask for More.\u201d Years later, this was the song I\u2019d been singing for weeks in anticipation of the Trailblazing Boards of Directors Meeting. (see my previous blog). I was thrilled that Laura was excited to fly across the country … <\/p>\n

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